02.25.07

Fat Is a Relative Term

Posted in pregnancy at 5:30 pm by Char Lyn

This weekend was the first time I can say I actually felt like a beached whale. I had to get my husband to help me out of bed, in part due to laziness, in part due to finally feeling like I could use “I’m pregnant” as a viable excuse for needing help.

I work in a bullpen with a bunch of 20-something woman who all look like they could be in a fashion magazine. (I’ve never before actually known woman who wear pointed-toe, spiked heels with hip-hugger, boot-cut jeans). As one of the few women over 30 (okay, almost 40) and the only pregnant woman, it is really easy for me to feel VERY fat.

However, today at church, I had several women comment that I look great for being 7 months pregnant. They also commented on how small I am and told stories of how big they were at my stage of pregnancy. Last Monday during my first trip to Babies ‘r’ Us, I saw many woman whom I assumed were only days away from labor for our comparitive sizes.

The truth? It doesn’t matter what the actual circumference of my ever-growing belly is; what matters is how I feel about it and how those feelings affect how I interact with others. So today, I embrace my circumference and and all those around me. How can I possibly be sad about my waistline when I have a growing boy within?

Black is an amazing color.

02.22.07

Apparently, I Don’t Exist

Posted in names at 7:19 pm by Char Lyn

According to the website howmanyofme.com, “While both names you entered were found in our database, neither was common enough to make it likely that someone in the U.S. has that name.” And that’s for my maiden name. My married name isn’t even in the database. Perhaps my high school humanities teacher was right. I am just a figment of someone else’s imagination.

HowManyOfMe.com
Logo There are:
0
people with my name
in the U.S.A.

How many have your name

 

 

Speaking of names, we’ve only got two months left to find a name for our son. (Well, we are pretty sure it will be a boy. If it ends up being a girl, she will probably have gender issues after 5 months of being called “he” in the womb.) Want to suggest a name? Enter it in the comments. When there are enough suggestions, I’ll make a poll and let everyone vote. However, I will retain veto rights.

(Funny. I just noticed that vote and veto are anagrams. Weird.)

02.21.07

TMW–Blogging with Too Many Words

Posted in personal progress at 10:14 pm by Char Lyn

I need to become better at editing myself.  That last post was way too long.  I think part of it is my need to sit on content on for a day before I can edit in cold blood.  I’m going to work on it, and we’ll see if I’m able to improve in the next few posts.

Just one more step in my continued journey toward self-improvement.

02.19.07

Customer Service Still Exists

Posted in customer service at 4:25 pm by Char Lyn

I had an amazing experience today. It started with spilling half a batch of crepe batter in the front passenger seat of my new minivan (less than 3000 miles on it!). Think egg + milk + flour + cloth seats. I managed to mop up most of the batter with the roll of paper towels I keep in the glove box, but there was still the layer of batter coating all those little plush-cloth-seat hairs. Normally, I’d get out the carpet cleaner and clean up the mess myself, but I’m 7 months pregnanat and it was cold outside. I could have pulled the van into our little garage, but if I parked with enough room to get out of the driver’s door, I wouldn’t be able to open the passenger door to clean the seat. (That’s my excuse and I’m sticking to it.)

So, I decide to splurge and take the car somewhere to get it cleaned. I googled “car detailing” with my city and state and got a short list of nearby detailers. The first site has pictures of Ferrari’s and other high-end cars on it, but I called anyway. A voice recording gives me the option to get directions, but no shop hours. Annoying.

The next listing, Cross Enterprise, doesnt’ have a site, doesn’t even have “car” or “auto” in the company name, but I call the number anyway. Whoa! A real person answers the phone. I explain the situation and that I only want the one seat cleaned. I don’t want to spend the money or the time getting the whole car cleaned since it’s still new and doesn’t need it (in my opinion anyway). She says that one of the guys from the shop would need to see it to give me a price. I figure this is the “get the customer into the shop and then hit them with the bad news after they are commited to your company” ploy, but they are close so I give them a try anyway.

When I get there, I am met by the most pleasant people who genuinely seem to care about me as an individual. They listen to my story and get someone to come out and look. The service technician looks and says, I can try to get it out with what I’ve got here in the shop. If we can’t get it out, we can send it over to our other shop which has more powerful tools and they will be able to get it out. I ask the price, and he says, “don’t worry about it. I won’t charge unless we have to send it to the other shop.”

I’m hesitant, but I let him take the car and try anyway. I go in to wait, still expecting to pay around $50 for the cleaning. Less than 10 minutes later, he brings the car back up with a clean, but slightly damp seat. I ask again how much it will be, and the office manager essentialy says “no-charge, just come back when you need the whole car done.” In addition, the service technician explains that when the seat dries completely, I might see some residue of the batter because they can’t tell if they’ve gotten it all out when the seat is still wet. If I do see residue, just bring it back, and they will clean it again, no charge.

I left feeling like I had been treated like a queen, despite my oversized fleece jacket, black pajama pants, and cheap but new minivan. I guarantee that if I ever need auto detailing, maid service, carpet or upolstery cleaning, or any of the other services offered by Cross Enterprises, I will definitely be back. And if you need any of their services, you’d be crazy to go anywhere else.

While I was there, I checked prices on their auto detailing services. Their prices are competitive too, but they don’t tout it. They don’t need to. Their service followed by the pricing is a one-two punch that can get anyone to come back.

Cross Enterprises Inc
19 Tech Cir, Natick, MA
(508) 652-0097

Update: Turns out they do have a website, but Google Local’s search doesn’t link to it. http://crossservicesgroup.com

02.18.07

“I don’t want to know”

Posted in being Mormon at 9:31 pm by Char Lyn

I like to invite the Mormon missionaries over for dinner a few times a month. They are nice kids far away from home who are trying to do good things, and they bring a nice warm spirit into my home.

My husband, who does not share my religious beliefs, is good natured and tolerates the frequent company. He doesn’t mind a brief spiritual message after each meal, and enjoys getting to know each new Elder that comes into our ward.

Two weeks ago, the missionaries asked if they could teach him about the Plan of Salvation. To my utter amazement, he said yes, so they planed the lesson for our next dinner meeting.

Last night they came over for dinner again, and my husband was prepared. He invited his best friend to come to dinner, too, without telling him what was going on. Why? Well, he knew this friend would interact and ask questions during the discussion, which would get him off the participation hook.

I tried to refrain from participating too much by cleaning the kitchen while they talked. It was amusing to listen to my husband listening, and see him down two beers during the discussion (in addition to the one he had with dinner).

It was during that discussion that I realized the decision that my husband has made about my faith. He just doesn’t want to know. He is supportive of my active participation in my faith and my church, and he loves me for it. But, doesn’t want to know for himself if what I believe is true. He is happy as he is, and I love him as he is, and he doesn’t want to change. He knows that learning new truths will require him to change, so he prefers to remain ignorant about Mormonism.

I’m okay with his decision. But I also know that he won’t remain ignorant forever. One day, he will learn some truths despite his best efforts not to, and then he’ll be sorry.

Finally, “New Year” Is Over

Posted in Introduction/General at 4:21 pm by Char Lyn

Now that both the New Year and the lunar new year are over, I can start posting again. If I post during January, then blogging becomes one of those new years resolutions that I keep during January and don’t do for the rest of the year. If I skip January (and part of Feb due to laziness but blame it on the lunar new year), then I can safely blog for the rest of the year.

At least that’s my story, and I’m sticking too it.